Kris Vallotton • March 27, 2020

5 Ways to Supernaturally Activate Your Kids While in Quarantine

LITTLE SAINTS FACING A BIG PROBLEM

With schools shut down, social distancing and mandatory shut-ins, there’s no hiding the reality of this surging pandemic from our children. Not that long ago and during very different days, I shared my concern about the Church stepping over the line of parental protection into a place of overp r otection , and I spoke against shielding children from the realities of life. Yet, there’s no insulating our kids from this, and I don’t believe that’s a bad thing. The truth is families being forced to ride out this wave of uncertainty together is a glimmer of redemptive hope that brightly reflects God’s desire for families to faithfully function together.

Unshielded from the precariousness of this pandemic, there is an opportunity right now for children to witness the reality of a powerful God who wants to encounter them in every situation . Imagine if children grew up with a keen sense and awareness that the God who transcends the laws of physics will show up in their lives. This brings to mind the story in 2 Kings 5 of the young girl who faced tremendous uncertainty, yet she still desired for those around her to encounter the power of God...which resulted in the high ranking commander whom she served to be healed of leprosy.

Children, often at the mercy of their circumstances, no matter how dire, have a unique way of disallowing reality to rob them of their faith; this positions them for victory. Let me be clear: it is a natural instinct as parents to protect our children from negativity. However, we must not fail to acknowledge a young one’s spiritual author i ty as a child of God!

JUNIOR DOESN’T HAVE A JR. HOLY SPIRIT

I’m always shocked when modern congregations relegate children to a lower seat of authority than adults. Why? Because the same Spirit of power that lives in you and me resides in the little ones we’re entrusted with!

Unconvinced? The prophet Joel spoke of the Holy Spirit being poured out on children (Acts 2, Joel 2:28-32). Even Peter rightly reminded Believers that this gift was promised to not only them and their children but to those who were in the far off generations to come—“Repent and be baptized...you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. This promise belongs to you and your children and to all who are far off...” (Acts 2:38-39)

Imagine a world where children have embraced the Holy Spirit and are empowered to overcome the seething schemes of the enemy. What would that world look like? A family faithfully pursuing the Kingdom of God together would experience:

The youngest of family members walking in signs and wonders , healings and prophetic anointings; having a real, living, breathing relationship with God Almighty.

Massive global family restoration. Because God poured His Spirit out on ALL flesh (Romans 5:5, Joel 2:28), I believe that as the family learns to be Spirit-led, we will see the hearts of parents reconciled with their children and the hearts of children reconciled back to their parents.

Whole families spiritually equipped to face real-life issues together . Children would be embraced as part of the solution to the problem versus being shielded from the problem.

5 STEPS TO ACTIVATE YOUNG SAINTS AT HOME

While many are hunkering down during this COVID-19 storm that’s raging outside, I want to encourage you to weather it out with Holy Spirit as a family! While you’re all stuck together in the house, this is an opportune time to start looking at your kids with a supernatural lens and create an atmosphere in your home so your children can engage the Spirit that’s been gifted to them.

To give you a starting place, I came up with 5 quick ideas that will strengthen your faith and develop sensitivity as a family to the presence of the Holy Spirit. The possibilities are limitless, but here are my suggestions to get started:

Read 5 Ways You Can Include Your Children In Supernatural Ministry . This blog is a great guide to getting your family supernaturally started.
Tell your kids about the God of the impossible. What miracles can you recall that you can tell your children about? Then invite them in to pray with you for a miracle your family might need!

One of my favorite memories of empowering our children was when our daughters were young teenagers. They had been invited to go to China to smuggle Bibles into the country. Kathy and I immediately said, “No way! You girls are too young and China is no place for kids.” But the girls insisted they go, and they repeated things we had been teaching them for years. “Dad, you told us we were born to change the world, to make a difference. This is a chance for God to use us and prove His faithfulness.” We knew they were right, but it was difficult to practice what we had been preaching. We earnestly prayed, and then finally let them go. The story is too long to share here, but after an extremely tumultuous trip, they made it home safely. Despite the challenges of the trip, they fell in love with the Chinese people and wanted to give their lives for them. They were changed forever by this experience, and so were we.
Our global leaders, doctors, and nurses need to encounter Emmanuel—God with us, as they are overworked and exhausted. Together, with your children, pray and prophesy over all those in healthcare right now.
We are socially distanced right now, but not disconnected! Choose another family who would be willing to digitally connect with your family, and together pray and proclaim health over the globe. Let the children lead these prayers!
Get creative! Holy Spirit will guide each of you to respond to the needs that the globe is facing. Keep in mind to honor the government mandates that are being placed locally, nationally, and globally, but find creative ways to love your neighbor. Have the kids call anyone who may be in isolation or alone for a cheer up or a check-in. Send a text reminding a neighbor of why you’re thankful for them. Grab groceries for someone who can’t get out.

For more resources for raising up this generation or how to equip your children for spiritual warfare, check out my blog, “ What To Tell The Demon In Your Kid’s Closet .”

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By Kathy Vallotton • May 10, 2025

As Mother’s Day approached, I knew there was no one better to speak into the heart of motherhood than my wife, Kathy. Her life has been a living picture of grace, sacrifice, and Spirit-led strength. I believe her words will bless you the way her life has blessed me. Kris - Today, I want to honor the incredible women who wear the title of “Mother” with grace, strength, and unwavering love. A mother is a guiding light. She illuminates our paths with wisdom and warmth. She is the gentle hand that nurtures us in our earliest days, the fierce protector who stands by us through life’s storms, and the unwavering supporter of our dreams. Many times, Mom, our sacrifices go unnoticed. We juggle countless responsibilities, often putting our own needs aside to ensure the happiness and well-being of our family. That’s just what Moms do! My joy has always come from serving others. What some people call exhausting, I call invigorating! Even when my kids were young, I can't tell you how many sleepless nights I've had, comforting one of my babies because, ‘only Mommy will do.’ Love wins every time! But love has stolen my heart over and over again. In the good times and in the bad, Jesus has always been by my side, my solid rock and my firm foundation. He has been there beside you too! That big “S” that you wear on your chest didn't happen by accident. The bible says that He will never leave me or forsake me. During all of my laughter and through my many tears, He has always guided me in every situation. So when you feel weak, remember He is right by your side. When you don't think that you can move another muscle, He is your biggest cheerleader. When you get into a spot where life feels like more than you can handle, take a look at what the Lord says about you! You are Tenacious. Your perseverance is remarkable. As a Mom, you consistently push through obstacles with unwavering commitment to your goals. You are Courageous. Mom’s often take bold steps, stand up to what they think is just, even when faced with opposition or adversity. You can do this! You are Radiant. The love of Jesus shines brightly to all those who you come in contact with, inspiring positivity and hope. You are Unstoppable. Mom, once you set your sights on a goal, you exhibit an unwavering drive to help your children pursue their dreams and desires. You are Fierce. With a spirit that is unyielding, as a Mom, you will protect your family at all costs. You are Inspiring. Moms believe in their kids. We believe that all things are possible with God and encourage our families to go where no child has ever gone before! Mom, you are the architects of our character, teaching us values of kindness, empathy, and resilience. With every hug, every word of encouragement, you instill in us the confidence to pursue our passions and overcome obstacles. Your laughter brings joy to our lives, while your tears remind us of the depth of your love. As a mom myself, I celebrate not just the role you play but the remarkable individuals you are. You are the heart of the family, the keeper of traditions, and the source of unconditional love. Each moment shared, each lesson taught, and every story told weaves an unbreakable bond that shapes who we are. To all mothers, whether near or far, biological or chosen, your impact is profound and everlasting. Today, we celebrate you, not just for the love you give, but for the incredible people you are. Happy Mother’s Day! Kathy Vallotton

Character and Gifting: Favor with God and Favor with Man

By Kris Vallotton • March 5, 2025

Have you ever felt called to a spiritual role but struggled to find your place in it? Perhaps you've experienced a divine moment where God revealed a prophetic gift in your life, yet you found yourself wondering why others don't seem to recognize or acknowledge it. This tension between divine calling and human recognition can be one of the most challenging aspects of walking in prophetic ministry. I've spoken with countless individuals who believe God has called them to be prophets, yet they feel frustrated when church leadership doesn't immediately recognize their office. They often share powerful testimonies of divine encounters or prophetic words that confirmed their calling. But here's the beautiful truth I've discovered: authentic spiritual authority requires both divine appointment and human recognition. Scripture shows us that even Jesus "increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men" (Luke 2:52). This powerful verse reveals an important principle – spiritual authority flourishes at the intersection of Heaven's approval and earthly recognition. The Bible offers us profound wisdom about this journey of walking out our prophetic calling. Let's explore three essential principles that can help you navigate this path with grace and wisdom. 1. Understand the Process Between Anointing and Appointment King David's story provides one of the most powerful examples of the gap between divine calling and public recognition. When Samuel anointed David as king, the Spirit of the Lord came upon him powerfully – yet David didn't actually become king for fourteen years! During that time, he served faithfully, developed his character, and waited for God's timing. The journey between your prophetic calling and your public commissioning is not an accident – it's divine design. This season of preparation builds the character, wisdom, and spiritual maturity needed to carry the weight of prophetic authority. Just as David was anointed three times – once by God through Samuel and twice by the people – your prophetic gift may require multiple confirmations. Remember that if you have favor with God but not yet with leadership, pushing for recognition prematurely can lead to painful experiences. As Proverbs 18:16 reminds us, " A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men. " Allow your gift to create the space for your ministry rather than trying to force open doors that aren't ready to receive you. 2. Avoid Self-Promotion and Political Maneuvering It’s important to realize that even though your gift is what gets you into the room, your character is the thing that keeps you there. There's a stark warning in Scripture about gaining influence through manipulation rather than divine timing. Absalom, David's son, shows us the danger of winning people's hearts through flattery, false promises, and undermining leadership. He created a following by positioning himself as more accessible and understanding than the established authority. In today's social media age, the temptation toward self-promotion has never been stronger. We can easily build platforms that elevate our image above our character. But true prophetic authority doesn't come through marketing yourself as an expert – it comes through humble service, consistent character, and divine timing. James 4:6 reminds us that " God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. " When we push for recognition prematurely or through manipulation, we may gain a position but miss the protection that comes with proper promotion. Like Joseph, who shared his prophetic dreams prematurely with his brothers, our lack of wisdom can create a much more difficult path to our destiny than God intended. 3. Embrace the Preparation Process The weight of the prophetic office is both invisible and substantial. I've witnessed many genuinely called individuals crumble under the pressure of premature promotion. The apostle Paul wisely instructed that leaders " should first be tested and then let them serve " (1 Timothy 3:10), and warned against laying hands on anyone hastily (1 Timothy 5:22). True preparation for prophetic ministry involves more than just having accurate prophetic words. It requires developing spiritual maturity, biblical understanding, relational wisdom, and emotional health. If you sense a prophetic calling on your life, embrace the preparation process with patience and humility. Serve faithfully where you are. Allow trusted leaders to speak into your life and development. Study the Scriptures diligently. And remember that the process between the promise and the palace is not just necessary – it's a gift that prepares you to succeed when your time comes. My prayer for you is that you would find peace in God's timing for your prophetic journey. May you grow in both favor with God and with people, allowing the Lord to develop in you the character needed to carry His voice with integrity. Let me be clear- the path to your prophetic purpose isn't just about reaching a destination – it's about becoming the person who can faithfully steward the authority that comes with it.

4 Lessons After 50 Years of Marriage

By Kris Vallotton • February 12, 2025

Kathy and I are celebrating our 50th anniversary this year, and we’ve been together for 54. We’ve experienced highs and lows together and built a life I never imagined possible! Over the past 50+ years, we’ve learned a few things that I want to share with you to help your marriage thrive! Know when to sacrifice pleasure for the pursuit of joy. Kathy and I have learned when to sacrifice pleasure for the pursuit of joy; this is the discipline of laying down your life for another. A practical example of this is when people find out we have horses. They say, “Oh wow, Kris, you have horses!” My response to them goes something like this, “No, I don’t have horses. Kathy has horses. I only pay for the horses.” Their next question for me usually is, “Don’t you like horses?” To which I respond, “No, I don’t like horses, but I like Kathy.” You see, I get a lot of joy out of doing what Kathy wants to do. I am willing to sacrifice my own pleasure to pursue what develops joy in our marriage. It’s not one-sided, Kathy does the same for me. 2. Forgiveness restores the standard. If you’ve been in a relationship for any length of time, then you know the honeymoon phase doesn't last forever. The person that you love and cherish at the deepest level is the same person that will stretch, challenge, and offend you. I learned this lesson years ago when my kids were teenagers. I became angry with Kathy in front of them and treated her disrespectfully. An hour later, I apologized, and she forgave me. Colossians 3:13 tells us that “Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive". The truth is, forgiveness restores the standard of holiness in us and through us. 3. It’s not bad if your spouse thinks differently than you. Men and women think differently, and this is metaphorically demonstrated in the way they were created. Please understand what I am trying to communicate here. I am not at all trying to dishonor either gender. I know that women and men are equally intelligent. When Kathy and I got married, I didn’t understand marriage or women at all. I was so ignorant that it wasn’t even funny. I just had no value for Kathy’s opinion, while we were making decisions, when she refused to produce the facts for her conclusions. She often prefaced her statements with phrases like, “I feel like...,” “It troubles me that...,” “I don’t feel good about that...,” and so on. But what I learned over time, as many of my great decisions began to turn into mistakes, was that her “It feels like” or “This troubles me” were often a lot more accurate than the so-called facts! As the years have rolled on, I have learned to invite the rest of me, and my other half, my wife, into all of my decisions. And she has learned the same thing. We were made to be together. We are one flesh, a mystery that continues to unfold with time. 4. Vision gives pain a purpose. It is my conviction that we are living in a generation perishing for lack of vision. This is evident in many different areas of life, but I also see it in marriages. Having a vision for your marriage will help you persevere through the harder seasons that you’ll face together. Many years ago I had a vision where I was standing next to this elderly gentleman and could see him perfectly, but the man could not see me. The older man was surrounded by children and grandchildren telling stories about the family's history, lineage, and favor with God. In the vision he said, “And all of this began with your great-great-grandmother and great-great-grandfather.” I looked up and above the mantle of the fireplace and there was a huge portrait of Kathy and me! The Lord spoke to me and said: “You are no longer to live for a ministry—you are to live to leave a legacy! Your children’s children’s children are depending on you leaving them a world in revival. From this day forward, you will live for a generation that you will never see. You are to have a one-hundred-year vision so that you can build from the future.” This vision of our future helped us in developing a strategy to apprehend God’s goals for our lives, and it was the fuel that kept us going in the harder seasons. Consequently, from that day on, we began to build from the future, as the Lord had said. Let me be clear: you don't have to have a literal vision like I did, but you should have a vision and a direction for the future! Your marriage isn’t just about you, it’s about the generations that will follow. The truth is, the way you love, lead, and fight for your marriage today is building a legacy for your children and their children. So take time with your spouse, dream with God, and dream with each other. Get a vision for your family’s future! The breakthrough you experience now will impact the generations to come.

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