Kris Vallotton • August 14, 2020

5 Ways to Stand for Nobility in a Crowd of Moral Cowards

MODERN CHRISTIANITY?

It’s no secret to most of us that morality in America, as well as abroad, is eroding. We live in a day and age when morality has become relative, nobility is most often found in fictional stories, and virtue-less people consider righteous standards as religious oppression. Beyond that, people who don’t even believe in God, much less the Bible, use verses like “ judge not lest you be judged ” and “ Jesus didn’t condemn sinners ” to neutralize noble living and moral teaching; they use the Word of God against us in order to shape the culture that our children will one day inherit. What’s even more concerning to me than that is how Christian leaders are allowing these unbelievers to dictate how to interpret the Bible. Modern Christianity has become more about sanctioning sin and calling it unity than it is about God or His kingdom . God forbid someone ever feel the presence of conviction and experience the uncomfortable tension that comes with the weight of sin.   

CROWD OF COWARDS

The truth is that the morals of any society are not determined only by right and wrong; instead, they are often established by courageous people who brave the backlash of public opinion and forge new “norms. ” If you’ve noticed, cowards are always the first to surrender their souls to a shouting society, the sympathetic follow their suit, and then the politicians. Intellectuals tend to follow close behind as they exchange the reasonable for the ridiculous and rationalize until facts become fables. I’m curious, where are you in all of this? When are the true Believers going to step out of the crowd of cowards and pioneer a path forward with divine wisdom, supernatural strategies, and offer the world transformative love that actually does conquer a multitude of sin? 

For any that may have blurred perspectives on what sin is and what love isn’t, allow me to wipe away the politically correct grime from your “love everyone” glasses and ask you to consider this: 


1. Conviction is not condemnation . When Jesus spoke with the woman who was caught in adultery (John 8:1-11) He said, “ Does no one condemn you? Neither do I condemn you. Go your way and sin NO MORE! ” Did you catch that? Jesus tells her that He does not condemn her though He makes a point to tell her to go and sin no more. How many of you know that when God convicts us, He actually empowers us to “go and sin no more.” Get it straight, knowing the difference between right and wrong is considered wisdom, not bigotry and damnation, as the world defines it. 

2. Just because something is common doesn’t make it normal . Simply because any number of people believe something doesn’t make it true. For example, cancer is common, but it’s not normal! I could say the same for lying—half-truths are widely practiced in communication today, yet, this doesn’t make lying normal behavior. 

3. Renaming sin is delusional. Giving sin the name of a friend instead of an enemy is self-deception and can be detrimental. For example, when we describe abortion as a “human right” other than what it is—murder—we are normalizing the brutalization of innocent life. In other words, forming a new moral code out of misguided feelings or sinful temptations pacifies society's conscience and creates a "normal" out of behavior that would otherwise be seen as overtly wrong. Renaming sin is a bottomless moral cesspool. Where is the line ever drawn? 

4. Turning a blind eye to sin is unsanctified mercy . Everyone deserves mercy, no question, but mercy means you didn’t get what you deserved. For example, if you say adultery is right, then you can’t possibly ask for mercy because mercy is only for people who are wrong. In other words, offering mercy without the confession of something being wrong is not God’s mercy, rather it’s unsanctified mercy. Unsanctified mercy pretends things are okay when they are in fact not. It offers mercy in a moment when God does not and turns a blind eye to sin for the sake of protecting the sinner’s feelings. One thing I think many believers forget is that God does not adjust to us, we adjust to God, and for good reason— He only has plans to prosper us, not to harm us (Jeremiah 29:11)! 

5. Jesus didn’t relate to sinners by sinning . Jesus did not conform to sinners so that He could relate and ultimately convince sinners with His Truth. His compassion with the woman whom He told to “go and sin no more” proves that. Jesus, the spotless lamb of God, didn’t agree with sin in hopes to convince, rather He listened to the heart and revealed who the sinner truly was—God’s child. 

Another point I want you to consider is that Jesus was tempted in every way, but He never sinned, therefore temptation is not a sin! In fact, temptation is not only common, it’s normal. Temptation is to our soul what exercise is to our bodies. In other words, resisting temptation is like lifting weights. It is often painful at first, but your inner man is growing, becoming nobler, and maturing in character. To be able to “go and sin no” more or to resist temptation is to have the revelation of how God identifies us. Jesus knew who He was, therefore He was able to love the sinner without conforming to sin and resist temptation when it was present to Him. 
 

TAKE A STAND FOR NOBILITY

 
While compassion and empathy MUST remain paramount in our hearts as Believers, and love for everyone has to be the hallmark of who we are, it should never be at the expense of our character, morality, and nobility. I’m asking Believers to rise up and take a stand ! I’m not suggesting picketing, I’m charging you to discern the delusion that’s taking place in our country. In fact, I recently wrote about why I believe discernment of spirits is one of the most important gifts for this day in age as it exposes the spirit behind what’s shaping our culture, dividing our families, deceiving the Church; get practical steps in operating in this much-needed gift here. 
 
The question remains, will you sit back until your soul atrophies and your moral legs become feeble, or until our children drown in the cesspool of our silence? Or will you break ranks from the crowd and take a stand for nobility? History hangs in the balance of your decision! You already know where I stand. Tell me yours in the comments below.

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